Friday, May 29, 2009

Timeframe for spirit contact

Q: My mom just died unexpectedly last week. Is it too soon for me to try to make contact with her through you? I vaguely remember someone telling me that they're not "available" right after they pass? Is there a general timeframe? Please let me know. Thank you.

A: There is no official wait time before establishing communication with a spirit loved one.

I have noticed some spirits are ready to communicate immediately and other spirits take longer.

Some mediums suggest a six month time period. I feel this is a good timeframe for many clients because by then they have processed some of their grief and are not in a desperate space. There is a difference between being ready and being needy. It just depends on the client and the spirit. Trust your own soul regarding this.

When you are ready, you just know.

What a blessing it is that you know you will connect with your mother's spirit in divine right timing and that love never dies.

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1 comment:

Unknown said...

Thank you for posting this question and answer. I have been wanting to connect with my mom who passed only a week and one day ago. You're right. I'm in a needy space. I'm comforted by knowing that I can choose to do this in the future. But I will try to calm down and just be glad that she is in a good, safe place with my dad, and that I will be able to request a reading at a more appropriate time.