So I ask the spirit to tell me about themselves with some basic questions:
- what did you die from?
- what did you look like?
- what is your relationship to my client?
- what was your personality?
- what is a good way they will recognize you?
- is there something you like to do?
- something you want to say about your life, the client's life?
They may answer a few of them. Occasionally, all of them. Essentially, I am trying to encapsulate their life in a nutshell. Not an easy task for some.