With that purpose in mind, I focus on bringing the essence of a spirit loved one through (ie. physical characteristics, personality traits, messages). This may include a few of the following things:
- what they were like when they were here (personality traits)
- how they interacted with people, especially the client
- what physical conditions they had before they passed
- how they passed
- what they looked like (physical appearance)
- what it was like to be them and 'walk in their shoes'
- some of the things they thought or did
- what they think about the client's people and situations (their opinion/message)
Clients often happily report that the spirit(s) and info they wanted to link with came through "right off the bat".