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Q: Are my loved ones in Spirit at peace?

Q: Are my loved ones in Spirit at peace?

A: This is a frequent question from clients. They are asking in order to make sure their loved ones are finding some happiness in the next life, and also probably checking on whether they might have Peace as an option when it is their turn to cross over.

In fact, one of the most common phrases that appears on headstones is "RIP" or "R.I.P.", an abbreviation of the Latin phrase "Requiescat in pace". In English, this translates into "Rest in Peace".

Through my work as a medium and as a human-being sharing this plane of existence with a vast multitude of people and their personalities, I have found that Peace is a subjective term. After all, peace is different for different people.

For some, peace means being quiet and restful. The image of an angel floating on a cloud, having the occasional harp concert, and basically enjoying oblivion comes to mind. A little cliched, if you ask me. But let's not underestimate the benefits of restful peace. Some hectic days we all yearn for it, right? For most, that kind of peace is too boring to have all of the time. [too much like vegging out in front of the television for the next eon.]

The vast majority of souls want a little bit of excitement to keep it interesting. They want to progress, to think, to do. These folks find Peace is learning and doing, so they grab hold of the educational opportunities of the next plane. And they usually pay attention to the events in the lives of their loves ones on the Earth plane. They might even be better at being a parent, spouse, child, or friend now.

For yet another group, they are still in Life Review. And they may be having a difficult time understanding any kind of peace. But I have faith in spiritual evolution, and I know they will achieve more and more Peace as they move forward.

The door to reformation is never closed. Whatever stage or version of Peace our loved ones are in, please know that they are experiencing Divine consciousness directly proportional to their desire to vibrate at higher frequencies.

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