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Wait time between readings

Q: What is the suggested wait time if any, between readings?

A: It is my policy that my clients wait at least six months before scheduling another mediumship reading with me. Here is my reasoning...

I have several repeat clients and some of them want readings regularly. In fact, if I permitted, some clients would have a reading once per month. So I began this policy many years ago in order to protect us from using spirit contact as a crutch or entertainment. Even though mediumship can offer solace during some of life's most difficult times, it should never take the place of listening to one's own soul.

In addition, frequent readings don't make sense because no new information would be given in such a short space of time. For example, if a client had another reading in one month, some of the same information would most likely come through.

For me, spirit contact through mediumship is an empowering and sacred experience that can offer comfort and guidance during life's challenges. Thankfully, the vast majority of my clients understand that mediumship is a conversation with their loved ones and (while those in spirit may offer suggestions and/or guidance) ultimately they must listen to their own souls in order to navigate their lives --- so they appreciate my policy.

Six months is a good amount of time for people to have absorbed the information from the previous mediumship reading, verified many of the impressions given by their spirit loved ones, and shifted into a new phase in the understanding of their lives and spiritual awareness.

Bottomline: Any time after that six month mark is fine for many clients - for some it is a year or two or longer between sessions. Listen to your own soul and you will know the if and when to have another reading.
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Natalie said…
Yep, 6 months is good.....for all the reasons you mentioned.
July 9, 2010 at 4:39 AM
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